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Chongmyong Without Graves: How North Korea’s Grave Removals Are Erasing an Ancestral Holiday

Chongmyong is a traditional East Asian holiday centered on ancestral rites when families visit graves, burn incense and share food and drink in remembrance of their loved ones. Yet this year on April 5 – coinciding with Easter as the West celebrated the risen Jesus – that ritual has largely vanished in North Korea as authorities ordered the systematic removal of graves from hillsides and forests, quietly draining one of the country’s last traditional holidays of its meaning.

GRIEVING ancestors IN PRIVATE

North Korea’s grave removal campaign has effectively stripped one of the country’s remaining traditional festivals of its emotional and social core. Sources in North Pyongan province reported that in Phihyon and Chonma counties, the hillsides were strikingly empty this past Chongmyong. Compared to previous years where families from across the country would be permitted by the state to travel, hike together and spend hours visiting tombs, this rare family reunion has largely disappeared, leaving only sparse visits from those who still dare to show up.

For context, since becoming a public holiday in 2010, Kim Jong-un’s administration has ordered the removal of graves from hillsides and forests near the Chinese border in recent years, citing land management, reforestation and “beautification” as justifications. Households that failed to obey tight deadlines were warned that the authorities would exhume the graves themselves. Under that pressure, most families chose to dig up their ancestors’ remains and have them cremated, surrendering the physical site that once anchored their memories. A handful of graves remain scattered here and there, but those who still visit do so quickly, making brief offerings before leaving to avoid drawing official attention.

Beyond the ritual itself, the loss of Chongmyong affects the very fabric of family life. The holiday has long served as one of the few occasions when relatives living in different parts of the country could reunite and exchange news, but now “even that kind of holiday is gone, the connections we had left feel like they’re drying up too. With the graves removed, there’s no reason to gather anymore,” said one of the sources. Others described a deeper pain that cuts community-level ties that have persisted years under one of the world’s most restrictive political systems.

SUPERSTITION AND CRACKDOWN ON THE MOURNING

In some regions of South Hwanghae province, the dismantling of ancestral customs has taken a more sinister turn. A baseless rumor has spread in rural areas that “disaster will strike your family if you don’t move your ancestor’s grave by the end of the year,” fueling anxiety and confusion among mostly agricultural communities. The rumor has caused people who had already scheduled tomb relocations to delay their work, while others who heard the claim have begun flocking to fortune tellers, convinced that their hardships stem from bad luck or “unfavorable” grave placement.

The Ministry of State Security has reacted with alarm, treating the rumor as a threat to ideological control. Declaring it “anti-socialist behavior,” the ministry launched a sweeping crackdown under the banner of a “group to wipe out superstition,” working alongside local police units to hunt down anyone who spreads or believes the rumor. The crackdown has targeted fortune tellers near marketplaces, shamans and middlemen involved in tomb relocation, arresting individuals deemed “anti-socialist elements” on the grounds that superstition is “the beginning of the counterrevolution.”

Families already reeling from the loss of ancestral sites now also live under the watchful eye of security forces, who may harass even unrelated people as part of the ideological purge. For ordinary North Koreans, this adds insult to injury: the physical erasure of graves and the psychological erasure of the rituals that once gave them comfort, identity and a sense of continuity with their ancestors. The greater unintended consequence is the unfortunate discouraging of time with family and friends in what is infamously the world’s most oppressive country.

Prayer for North Korean Refugees: Freedom

How do you think North Korean refugees envision freedom? Take a look at your schedule today, only two days from the 4th of July - a holiday when we celebrate our freedom as citizens of the United States.

What is it filled with? Work to complete? Errands to run? We are all so busy these days. If our jobs aren’t taking more than 40 hours a week, our social lives or families are. None of us are trapped or persecuted by authorities. But many may feel oppressed and stuck in the hectic cycle of our day-to-day lives.

On Saturday, the New York Times printed a fascinating column about this. Author Tom Kreider spells out the pitfalls of modern American busyness.

“Almost everyone I know is busy,” he said. “They feel anxious and guilty when they aren’t either working or doing something to promote their work. They schedule in time with friends the way students with 4.0 G.P.A.’s make sure to sign up for community service because it looks good on their college applications.”

And what it all adds up to, according to Kreider, is a pile of work to cover up the fact that our lives are often empty.

What does it mean, then, if even our scheduled leisure time, our rigorously organized holidays and days set aside for exciting activities add up to empty lives? If freedom is not found in barbecue or fireworks or all the leisure in the world, where do we stand as a people who are "free"?

The Word tells us quite simply in 2 Corinthians, "Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom."

As followers of God, our calling is not to only to celebrate freedom in rights or in leisure. Our calling is to celebrate having freedom in salvation. Because of the work of Christ, we live in the Spirit's satisfaction. We are made whole and overflowing. We live free of fear, of condemnation, of death.

However, we acknowledge still that North Korean refugees, and many around the world, struggle in fear. They are not only politically imprisoned, made slaves of hunger, poverty, and fear. They are not free to hear the gospel. They are not free to access the freedom God extends to them through the Spirit. It is for these reason that Crossing Borders works to reach them, beyond the borders of oppression, starvation, and pain.

So this 4th of July, please help us to thank God for the freedoms we enjoy, not only for our privileged lives and civil liberties, but for the Spirit. Most importantly, please help us to pray for and serve those who need this same freedom. Help us to provide for their material needs and most importantly, for their spiritual hunger.

Bernard Malamud, author of “The Natural” once wrote, “The purpose of freedom is to create it for others.”

The apostle Paul writes in Galatians 5, "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another."

Today, as we pray, let us ask God that this freedom that we celebrate would not be wasted. Let's pray that the freedom of the Spirit would be delivered in the healing and empowerment to North Korean refugees in China and the oppressed around the world.